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TARA AND YESHUA 101: LET GOD’S WORDS, BE THE WORDS, THAT DEFINE YOU, AND OVERRULE YOUR IDOLS. ALLOW YESHUA AND ALLAH TO BREATHE LIFE INTO YOU.
MY JEWISH FATHER YESHUA, (JESUS) IS THE REASON, WHY I AM NO LONGER ASHAMED, OF MY HAIR. AND WHY I ENJOY CARING FOR MY TEXTURED, GRADE OF HAIR. WHAT LITTLE I REMEMBER, OF MY CHILDHOOD, MY HAIR WAS ALWAYS AN EMBARRASSING, ATTRIBUTE, WITHINTHE BLACK COMMUNITY, AND MY FAMILY, BECAUSE IS WASN'T CONSIDERED, IN MY MOTHER'S WORDS: GOOD GRADE OF HAIR, MANAGABLE, THE RIGHT TYPE OF HAIR, THAT SHOULD BE PERMED, AND NOT NATURAL, LIKE COUSINS, AND MY MOTHER, AND AUNT, WHO ARE MIXED WITH NATIVE AMERICAN HERITAGE.
MY DAD IS THE ONE, WHO TOLD ME ENOUGH, OF HIDING MY HAIR, IN TWISTS AND BRAIDS, AND CHEMICALLY PROCESSING MY HAIR. THAT IS WAS TIME FOR ME, TO FACE THE UGLY TRUTH, THIS BEING THE SECOND TIME I WENT NATURAL. BUT THE TRUTH, OF IT ALL, THAT MY HAIR, MY NOT BE ACCEPTED, OR CONSIDERED "GOOD HAIR", "BEAUTIFUL HAIR", BUT IT WAS TIME TO LOVE IT ANYWAY, AND CARE FOR IT, WITH PRIDE AND COMPASSION.
SO, ALL BLESSINGS, TO THE HIGHEST ALLAH, GOD WHO IS MY FATHER'S FATHER. I NOW ENJLOY MY NIGHTIME HAIR ROUTINE. AND I DONT ALLOW MYSELF TO THINK, OF WHAT OTHERS WITHIN A CERTAIN RACE, OF ETHNICITIES, THINK OF MY HAIR, OR SAY ABOUT IT. BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY, MY DAD BREATHED LIFE INTO ME AGAIN, TO LOVE IT, AND CARE FOR IT, LIKE I DO FASHION, AND TAKE PRIDE IN HOW I DRESSED IN JR. HIGH, AND HIGHSCHOOL. AND HE USES TERMS, WHEN DESCRIBING MY HAIR AS PRETTY, SOFT, THICK AND FINE. AND AS LONG AS GOD, HAS AN OPINION OF MY HAIR, IT OVERRULES EVERYONE ELSES. TARA 101: THINK ABOUT WHAT GOD SAYS ALLAH, YESHUA, JESUS, NEXT TIME YOU WANT TO BEAT YOURSELF DOWN, LADIES, AND GENTLEMEN.
